Learn, Grow, Repeat

Mistress Schari and Catnip have an incredible conversation tonight about a very serious subject... Toxic Masculinity. Two words that get tossed around a lot lately, but do we really understand what it means and how to create safe spaces for persons of all genders to communicate effectively with each other. Joining our conversation is Darren Campbell (he/him) is a sexuality and relationship educator and coach based out of Toronto, Ontario. The conversation around toxic masculinity gives us language and tools to deal with the lies society tells us about how to be men. These lies and narratives impact every aspect of life and cause a lot of harm in our relationships with ourselves and each other. By talking about healthy masculinity and by using tools available to us we can create a world that reduces harm and gives each of us (men and non-men alike) permission to pursue our authentic bliss. Addressing the ways the patriarchy and it’s close cousins white supremacy and colonialism are actively harming us is one of the most important things we can do in pursuit of our own path and creating a more equitable, just world.

Darren Campbell is a sex educator and coach who creates online content and events on topics such as queerness, kink, non-monogamy, and gender exploration. He has a newsletter called Learn, Grow, Repeat where he shares his insights and experiences on sexuality and relationships.

This episode, Erin chats with relationship coach Darren Campbell about toxic masculinity, navigation in-person spaces again, and making big life changes.

How Consensual Non-Monogamy Works For Us

Sexologist and relationship expert Jess O'Reilly (IG: @sexwithjess), coach and educator Darren Campbell (IG: @darrenlearn), and author of 'Polyamorous: Living & Loving More' Jenny Yuen (IG: @polyamorousbook) discuss consensual non-monogamy, their own experiences and evolutions with sex toys, explain the features and innovations available to you, and answer viewer questions. Plus, Allysin Chaynes (IG: @allysinchaynes) takes to the streets to ask people about their views on monogamy.

Authors/Editors: Shay & Stefanos Tiziano

Darren Campbell, kink coach and educator joins Fat Chicks to talk about finding his queer and kinky identity.

Guest Darren Campbell chats with Theo and I about what a non-toxic vision of masculinity could look like, and ways that we can all detoxify our ideas about what it means to be a man - for all genders.

Erin speaks with kink educator & coach Darren. Listen along as they talk about collaborative consent, bottoming skills, and mitigating harm.

Erin speaks with Darren Infinity. Listen along as these two kink nerds talk about protocol, why penis centric sex can be problematic, and how to cross over into kinky play from vanilla sex.

3 Suggestions, 5 Truths, and Infinity

How Embarassing: Kevin Allison, Jen Bosworth, Donna Steele and Darren Infinity share stories of humiliation.